Let's get some chat going about it

Yea sorry I changed it. Just doing some spring cleaning most people will catch on seeing the 🐻 hopefully
I hate when guys change usernames and profile pics too. Makes me question reality, worse every year as I older. On the other hand it's a bit like the old joke -

What's the upside of having Alzheimers?

You can make new friends everyday!
Plus you get to laugh at all the old jokes again.
And you can make new friends everyday!

To stay on track with the thread, y'all be careful what you wish for, the grass is always greener etc.

I've only ever had the no-nut problem after a few rounds and a lot of the effort in those early rounds is holding off. I make jokes but I'm not selfish IRL :)
 
I like and respect pretty much everyone here most know I'm not too shy on expressing myself I just like to keep my cards close to the chest in a sense that this is still a public forum. Most the sponsors and probably the boss at least know who I am I'm not hiding from anything lol. If every thread was in the trusted members section and could never appear on Google I'd use my real name for all I care but with a.i., the internet and cyber crime or LE I'd rather keep a tight ship. Cheers mate I'll let everyone get back to their thread


our forum is members only
so its not searchable on google

it used to be
and we where the top in any search for AAS forums in Canada
but I opted to be safe rather then big
so your secrets are all safe here and are for members eyes only
 
our forum is members only
so its not searchable on google


it used to be
and we where the top in any search for AAS forums in Canada
but I opted to be safe rather then big
so your secrets are all safe here and are for members eyes only

This is the best part of this place. There was a couple times I thought about leaving simply because I wanted things to be a bit more private here when I knew what we talked about would pop up on any google search.
 
When I was young I came easy, now it's more difficult (42). I can't with cowgirl and she has to have amazing oral skills to make me cum from a BJ, very rare. Anal is much easier than vaginal, vaginal will usually take me like 25 mins of hard pounding. Kinky shit makes it easier too. My current gf is trans, I find that very kinky, she has no vagina so anal is the way, she also has top tier oral skills and can make it happen, she likes to ride me cowgirl and will orgasm multiple times in a few minutes (quite the party trick to see), but I can't cum with her riding even though it feels good. I haven't touched a vagina in a long time and honestly crave it so I'm guessing it might be quicker if I tried one today but I don't know.
 
When I was young I came easy, now it's more difficult (42). I can't with cowgirl and she has to have amazing oral skills to make me cum from a BJ, very rare. Anal is much easier than vaginal, vaginal will usually take me like 25 mins of hard pounding. Kinky shit makes it easier too. My current gf is trans, I find that very kinky, she has no vagina so anal is the way, she also has top tier oral skills and can make it happen, she likes to ride me cowgirl and will orgasm multiple times in a few minutes (quite the party trick to see), but I can't cum with her riding even though it feels good. I haven't touched a vagina in a long time and honestly crave it so I'm guessing it might be quicker if I tried one today but I don't know.
I gotta ask, does she have to masturbate as well to cum or does the anal sex alone do it?
 
Ever since I was early 20's my problem has always been needing longer and more aggressive sex to blow the load. I thought it was pretty uncommon and more common issue being erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. So I didn't really think to bring it up, but seems like a few guys here share my problem.

It's extremely rare for my wife (or previous women) to get me off with a blow job or handjob. They just can't do it aggressively enough to make the magic happen.

My wife only cums when she's riding me and it doesn't take her long, but she can never make me cum when she's on top. The forward/backward grinding doesn't do fuck all for me, its the in and out that works. She really wants to be able to ride me and get me off while she's getting off, but I don;t think that will ever happen..

I don't watch porn. I don't yank it much.

We've tried waiting as long as possible before banging and the issue is, I get way to horny after 4 or 5 days to not get on the wife, but waiting 4 or 5 days does nothing to make me cum easier.

Nothing seems to give me enough sensitiviely to make me blow wihout speed/aggressive etc.. And again, it takes me awhile

I didn't think it's an issue since the journey is enjoyavle, but the wife feels bad because she think's its her. And she'd like to be able to bj/ride/handjob for me.


I've read about some deffiniccy in a vitamin or mineral causing loss or dimished sensation in the dong before.. I think it might be vitamin B12 defficieny?

Is there anything that causes this or can help?
do you take any serotonin medications (cannabis, aniti depressants, stimulents)? pain medications? hows your blood pressure? do you need viagra/cialis? do you feel euphoric when you cum?

i started to do a lot of research on hormones and drugs and sex since it became a large part of my life in the past few years

very interesting topic

also dont want to sound offensive in anyway, i personally found its hard to finish with older women just due to them being looser
 
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do you take any serotonin medications (cannabis, aniti depressants, stimulents)? pain medications?

of that list, I take about 1-2 puffs of pot before bed 5 or 6 nights a week. I drink 2 big cups of coffee a day.

hows your blood pressure?

Good actually! I cna't recall exact numbers, but dr said its great

do you need viagra/cialis?

Nope

do you feel euphoric when you cum?

not really no...

i started to do a lot of research on hormones and drugs and sex since it became a large part of my life in the past few years

very interesting topic

also dont want to sound offensive in anyway, i personally found its hard to finish with older women just due to them being looser

My wife is a physcially small person. She'd had 2 kids.. I noticed a difference for a couple months after she had each kid, but then things healed and I didn't think there was much if any difference once it healed up. I also had this problem long before I meet my wife and I had it when I first meet my wife.. I have had the issue since early 20's. I'm mid 40's now and I think my problem has gotten slightly better
 
of that list, I take about 1-2 puffs of pot before bed 5 or 6 nights a week. I drink 2 big cups of coffee a day.



Good actually! I cna't recall exact numbers, but dr said its great



Nope



not really no...



My wife is a physcially small person. She'd had 2 kids.. I noticed a difference for a couple months after she had each kid, but then things healed and I didn't think there was much if any difference once it healed up. I also had this problem long before I meet my wife and I had it when I first meet my wife.. I have had the issue since early 20's. I'm mid 40's now and I think my problem has gotten slightly better
cannabis increases serotonin and elevations in serotonin delays ejaculation quite significantly, its the medication they prescribe to those with pre-mature ejactulation

i noticed when I dont feel eurphoric after ejaculating those are the periods where I have more trouble ejaculating and then it doesn't even feel good, typically happens when I dont get morning wood either, typically I found morning wood to not happen if my dht levels are low or if my estrogen levels are high or my testoterone is too high, which could just be from higher estrogen

I probably do need to do more research but what I found works for me, is unfortunately not going to be ideal for most, which is a low testosterone trt regimine. Perhaps it has to do with estrogen and prolactin, but i noticed serotonin to be the worst culprit for not being able to ejaculate. I know low prolactin will cause you to have a higher euphoric feeling from ejaculation and vice versa, having high prolactin causes you to almost feel nothing during ejaculation, at least from what I experienced.

typically if I want to have a more euphoric feeling i'll cut out anything that raises serotonin and then also cut out anything that raises prolactin and lower my testosterone. I also noticed an effect which has more to do with health, i.e low insulin sensitivity to also cause some issues with ejaculation.

I guess it is hard to "test" when you're married since having sex with other girls wouldn't be okay, skinnier/petite girls are significantly tighter though, lubrication seems to make a huge difference as well.

I haven't done enough research on cannabis to know how long it affects serotonin either.

Did you use cannabis in your early 20's?
 
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It's a good topic of discussion as I've started lasting longer and longer since starting TRT about 3 years ago to the point where it can be very difficult to come.
I appreciate all the in-depth opinions people Express on this forum great insight.
For myself getting as erect as humanly possible is priority #1 to the point it gets a mean left hook to it!
And I tend to keep things a little simpler in my mind as well I just pretend she's late on the rent or my cousin!
 
It's a good topic of discussion as I've started lasting longer and longer since starting TRT about 3 years ago to the point where it can be very difficult to come.
I appreciate all the in-depth opinions people Express on this forum great insight.
For myself getting as erect as humanly possible is priority #1 to the point it gets a mean left hook to it!
And I tend to keep things a little simpler in my mind as well I just pretend she's late on the rent or my cousin!
Does that still work if she is your cousin?
 
I gotta ask, does she have to masturbate as well to cum or does the anal sex alone do it?
Yes, she uses her hand but if she's more patient she can cum handsfree from doggy sometimes. She's greedy though and wants 2 or 3 orgasms 2 or 3 times a day. She's 28 and has high test and estrogen her libido is wild even compared to me on cycle.
he is in her ass, she does not have a clit. what is she going to masturbate??? ;););)
🤏🍆🤫
 
cannabis increases serotonin and elevations in serotonin delays ejaculation quite significantly, its the medication they prescribe to those with pre-mature ejactulation

I had no idea! To be honest, I come easier if I'm a touch high. The cannibis hightens a lot of sensations I Think.

i noticed when I dont feel eurphoric after ejaculating those are the periods where I have more trouble ejaculating and then it doesn't even feel good, typically happens when I dont get morning wood either, typically I found morning wood to not happen if my dht levels are low or if my estrogen levels are high or my testoterone is too high, which could just be from higher estrogen

before starting 100mg TRT, I got no morning wood.. When I started 100mg TRT I still had no morning wood.. Since starting arimdex, I get the occiasional morning wood. so seems to be what your saying

I probably do need to do more research but what I found works for me, is unfortunately not going to be ideal for most, which is a low testosterone trt regimine. Perhaps it has to do with estrogen and prolactin, but i noticed serotonin to be the worst culprit for not being able to ejaculate. I know low prolactin will cause you to have a higher euphoric feeling from ejaculation and vice versa, having high prolactin causes you to almost feel nothing during ejaculation, at least from what I experienced.
I've never had prolactin tested.. I might ask for it next round of bloods

typically if I want to have a more euphoric feeling i'll cut out anything that raises serotonin and then also cut out anything that raises prolactin and lower my testosterone. I also noticed an effect which has more to do with health, i.e low insulin sensitivity to also cause some issues with ejaculation.

I guess it is hard to "test" when you're married since having sex with other girls wouldn't be okay, skinnier/petite girls are significantly tighter though, lubrication seems to make a huge difference as well.

My wife is skinny and very attractive.. 40 years old and still gets carded. But I agree, the excess lubrication sucks.. She explained its during her cycle when her body wants to get pregnant..

I haven't done enough research on cannabis to know how long it affects serotonin either.

Did you use cannabis in your early 20's?

I did... heavy sometimes..
 
Something interesting I never heard before...
 
Something interesting I never heard before...
Well that clarified things 😂
 
Something interesting I never heard before...
I'd bet it has to do with serotonin, when you take anti depressants you get low libido, ED, delayed ejaculation and short lasting serotonin medication is what they give you when you have pre-mature ejaculation and it works. If you take some it's literally impossible to orgasm but you also lose the desire to have sex, mid sex you just feel bored.

I usually get off anti depressants or cut my dose super low if I am going to have sex.
 
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