just saw the cutest cashier at the store but Im so autistic I never know what to say. "hey baby what u think of my peanut butter? yea I throw it in my protein shakes, high in cals and stuff" ..
do those pickup vids work. want to try it just for the fun of it lol
lol, makes sense. but wont the fugly people attract other fugly people?
A fugly 5/10 guy will only attract 2/10 female ham planets, IMO. Dont know if that juice is worth the squeeze lol
yea lots of wackos for sure, but its just like any industry. just like how there are wack fitness youtubers. but I just watch them to pick out a few nuggets of information.
Yeah some of those your tube guys are nuts. The one I really liked Luke Sandoe isn’t around anymore
I lost my friends in my early 20s. I don't socialize. I've just accepted to be alone.
Hm yea this seems to be more common these days than I thought. I wonder if the birth of internet has anything to do with some not wanting to socialize in person, imagine if we couldnt talk on forums what would people do? My grandparents are always like "addy why dont you find some friends?" Oh cause they were all out of stock at friends-R-us last time I checked
LOL.. The birth of dating apps is what fuked us sir.Hm yea this seems to be more common these days than I thought. I wonder if the birth of internet has anything to do with some not wanting to socialize in person, imagine if we couldnt talk on forums what would people do? My grandparents are always like "addy why dont you find some friends?" Oh cause they were all out of stock at friends-R-us last time I checked
lol havent had a girlfriend In an embarrassing amount of years. I never could understand how guys will find relationships without a small circle of friends. If I think someone is hitting on me she will be quickly repulsed when I open my mouth and say stupid shit, so unless I have something smart to say (usually never) I just smile and nod these days.
I understand part of your problem. Read your last paragraph. You just put yourself down, I have read you doing this numerous times. We have all done this on occation, but it’s a habit you need to fix.Hm yea this seems to be more common these days than I thought. I wonder if the birth of internet has anything to do with some not wanting to socialize in person, imagine if we couldnt talk on forums what would people do? My grandparents are always like "addy why dont you find some friends?" Oh cause they were all out of stock at friends-R-us last time I checked
lol havent had a girlfriend In an embarrassing amount of years. I never could understand how guys will find relationships without a small circle of friends. If I think someone is hitting on me she will be quickly repulsed when I open my mouth and say stupid shit, so unless I have something smart to say (usually never) I just smile and nod these days.
Yes dating apps oh where do I begin.. That and (anti) social media are the end of us I swear. I could never make a profile on a dating app, tinder for example, because it always rubbed me the wrong way as I felt it sooo artificial. Nothing against people who use it but I just could never bring myself to do it, too fake I guess. LOL love how you say simp I havent heard anyone say that in a long time, I say simp and cuck all the time hahaha. I only do jobs with 99% other men anyways and Ive learned the hard way its best to keep personal life out of work and only talk about work related stuff which others seem to not be able to do so well.
I understand part of your problem. Read your last paragraph. You just put yourself down, I have read you doing this numerous times. We have all done this on occation, but it’s a habit you need to fix.
How can someone who thinks he sucks be confident enough to portray himself as a good catch to another woman?
This is why the pick up guys succeed, not because they are the best talkers, or the best looking, but they believe in themselves.
I was guilty of what you are doing at one time. Then I moved to Kelowna, partly because my uncle would tell me stories about how cool it was. Then I met a good friend in the gym.
So this guy extruded confidence with socializing, could easily talk to woman. We go out to the bar first time, he takes off to hit on girls and leaves me standing there alone, so here I am chatting with the other loser guys like myself who are too afraid to do anything, the night sucked.
Next weekend he did the same thing, so I stood around with those dudes again, but as I got a buzz on, I was like, fuck, I can’t be like this. I have to do something, force myself. So I hit on the old woman, lol. Like ones 20 years older, they would actually talk to me, didn’t act negative towards me like the younger ones, some even helped me out by refining how I approached girls. Hit it was a start. I was now moving myself into a positive direction no matter how lame it seemed.
Next thing after a couple months (plus I was killing it in the gym and looked good) I had lost that fear, well at least I could control it enough to just walk over and talk. Even the way I held myself improved, girls started to come over and initiate conversation. It was a game changer, my self worth massively improved.
Anyhow you need to formulate a plan. No one is successful without one.
Here is a basic list I would follow, but you will need to apply it to you.
1. Get your body into damn good shape, huge is not what attracts most woman, get lean.
2. Make an effort when you are out anywhere to smile and say high to other people including woman, young or old. Even to cashiers.
This will help improve how you are portrayed. It will become a habit.
3. Every night before bed and in the shower in the morning, complement yourself. Think of what you did that day to improve your situation and give yourself a pat on the back. So if you smiled at a hot chick and she lit up and smiled back, think out that and how it was because of you.
Tell yourself you are a beautiful butterfly, lol. I’m not really kidding, I know you’ll laugh as you say it, but I’d bet after a week, you’ll notice how you feel improves.
With anything you need to like yourself, look at your positives.
Or I just guessed you all wrong and am an idiot,
in my defense I didnt know 99% of them, but still.but then again I would never open up this much to anyone I knew personally as its too difficult to talk about.
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then you will not be able to sweep a girl off her feet out of the gate. You need to spend time with a girl to allow her to become slowly accustomed to you, so meeting on an app can get you in the door.
Simps are male subs.. i dont know how that works sexually. I dont do simpsI had to search Simp in urban dictionary. Never heard that one. I hope it's not like being Sub. I like this role from time to time, getting slapped around and told what to do is a lot fun. My wife slaps me in the face in public if I don't listen, hard, it's a huge turn on! And it really turns a lot of heads.
Dating apps are messed up when you think about it, but I personally know three couples, family friends, that all met this way. All are married, all now have kids as of this year. It's definitely not going to hurt your odds to fish in more than one pool. Just take some good pics and make a profile. Worst case nothing happens, so no harm done. I'd do it if I had to, reluctantly of course, but it's easier than going out and talking to people so I understand why people do it. And if you get a match then step 1 is already done = ice broken.
If you're like me, and it sounds like you might be
For ex: My wife was my brothers best friend for many years (he's gay, so no conflict of interest) and over those years of just being around is how she slowly warmed up to me. It took time, and eventually she asked me to take her for a motorbike ride, and then I took her skydiving, and that was it.
Like I've said before, she's the only girl I've ever been with that wasn't a paid escort. I've never successfully hit on a girl before, never even got a single phone number. So much rejection, lol! If there is hope for a dud like me then you can do it to.
Had to add:
Scuba diving, that's a really good one, I dont know how I missed that, probably because I have not gone in a couple years. Even if you dont make a friend it's really fun!!!
