Thanks @Sorbate, it means a lot coming from you. I will say it's a bit intimidating, posting my pics alongside big boys like @Dream_catcher, @BanditNOLIMIT, @Slartibartfast and @Brbpuppy. Obviously somebody my size is gonna feel small amongst such company. Of course I got nothing but positivity and encouragement in return, though.You look great.
Our issue is we look at @Dream_catcher and think that’s how we are all supposed to look, lol. (Not just singling one member on here, there is a chunk of you who are really well built, Mr. Catcher is just our newest Pro, lol)
Shit our brains are twisted thinking that we look bad unless we look like him.
What I try to do now is compare myself to the average guy, and not even ones my own age, at 55 (my age) not having a gut makes you a god, lol.
I still strive for more, but you gotta give yourself an ego boost once in a while.
Be proud, show it off. No point in doing all that work without anyone seeing it.
Plus you are the look that 90% of woman think is best.
I was at Costco today after reading your reply, and took a good look around at the other middle aged dudes (I'm 48). You know what? I am doing pretty good when compared to the general population vs the stage-ready bros on the forum.
Like @Dream_catcher said, I'll just stay consistent and keep grinding out those incremental gains, see where it takes me.