So who has a great spouse or partner?

Oldguyjiujitsu

Oldguyjiujitsu

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So my wife and i have been together for almost 25 years. knock on wood, we have always had a great relationship supporting each other in whatever the other wants to do. We have had to our ups...a son, successful careers, many great experiences and we have had to support each other through some medical issues. Overall i could not ask for more. She is a very conservative person but has a very open mind...she has had to put up with my jiu jitsu injuries and never asks why i do it, she has had to play mom to more than a few of my students (even when they are going through a tough prep and have had to stay at our house) and does not complain.

Great example - today she is giving me my TRT injection and she says did you buy the new products you wanted to try with your TRT. I said not yet and she replies "hurry up Christmas is coming and i need stocking stuffer for you." Good wife LOL
 
I freaking love my wife. She's my best friend, a great partner and a great team mate in this game called life.

My wife is more on the conservative side. But she too is very open minded and will try anything in the right environment. (And I don't mean just sexually you pigs!)

The best communication I've ever had in a relationship. We talk about everything. Good or bad. I think I've learned more about myself than at any other time in my life. I'm not sure the people that knew me 20 yrs ago would even recognize me!

She always has dinner ready for me when I get home. (She loves to cook, I do the dishes! She hates doing those.) She makes my protein shakes on nights I work late so i have them in the morning. She caters to my diets an goals. She supports me in everything I do in life. My family and friends love her and embraced her. She's a ying to my yang. Her strengths are my weaknesses and vice versa. We embrace that. I'm a spender, she's a saver... I let her handle the household finances. LOL

I work stupid hours, but I make sure I always give my wife time dedicated to her and her alone. No cell phones or laptops, or TVs. Just the two of us. I love being with her so I enjoy dropping everything off my schedule to ensure she feels important in my life.

Once you get over the little shit, either in your own minds, or with expectations, or whatever, relationships are pretty easy. And great.

I never thought I'd get married. Sure I lived with women. I have a son who is 20. But I would never have married his mother. Great mother, but we had a toxic relationship.

I've known my wife for over 20 years. She went to university with my younger brother. They used to come to Toronto on weekends to party with their group of friends and I'd let them stay at my place. I'd stock up the fridge with beer. leave a few bottles for them, a 1/4 oz of weed and let them enjoy the big city.

We reconnected through a mutual friend on Facebook 8 yrs ago. Neither one of us saw it coming. But her we are, and we couldn't be happier.

We got married a year ago May in Juneau Alaska on the Mendenhall Glacier.

And it's getting better all the time. blows my freakin mind that I'll never take one moment for granted.
 
mt666tm said:
I honestly can't belive she is my wife. I question reality many times on this. She could do waaaay better.
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I don’t know how many times we’ll be in bed and she’s sleeping and I just look at her and think exactly like you do.

I am one lucky mofo!!
 
I have an outstanding partner myself, stuck with me through the shit storm my ex pulled on me, continues to stay with regardless of all the harassment my ex does to her on pretty well a weekly basis. I'm pretty well her world and she shows it, I'm very well looked after.
 
mt666tm said:
I do. I honestly can't belive she is my wife. I question reality many times on this. She could do waaaay better. Hopefully she does not figure that out anytime soon. I chained her down with 2 kids, so thats working in my favor.
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Lol, that’s a great plan.
I kept my wife drunk for the first 10 years, now she’s tied to me too much financially and can’t leave, lol. I’m the evil she knows.
 
My wife of 6 years is amazing. She's beautiful (many people I work with ask if she was a model), she has barely aged in the 10 years I've known her, she is very open to my hunting/fishing/trapping adventures, great mom to our kids, good cook, stays in shape without trying, puts up with a lot of shit from me, I'd bet my life she doesn't even look at another guy in a sexual way let alone do I need to worry about her cheating, she didn't come with any bad history... She's a farmers daughter in everyway possible...

She's not perfect, she can be lazy for example.. But I couldn't ask or find a better wife.
 
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