Hey everyone.
Being a recently separated/divorced guy I’ve been noticing a lot of interesting things throughout this process. For the most part it hasn’t been terrible and any conversations regarding the children has been amicable until now. To give some background she decided to leave several months ago and my oldest hasn’t been handling that too well as he feels she broke up the family. Realistically she did not as we had our issues for many years.
Recently my ex has began dating someone pretty seriously by the sounds of it and has introduced him to both of our kids. My oldest isn’t a fan and is struggling mightily with this. However my youngest will be fine as he’s more easy going and relaxed. One is a teenager and the other is 10.
However, here’s the weird shit that I’m having trouble grasping and understanding throughout this process. My ex has been having inappropriate conversations with my oldest about my dating life and that I have a partner now (which I don’t). I’m not sure if this is to help her justify her relationship and my one sons push back? I just don’t see the point. There have been other comments as well essentially just pinning the children against me but to blatantly lie? To put kids into these positions is just beyond me and my morals.
Have any of you dealt with shit like this? If so, what were your techniques at handling it?
I feel like I’m pretty good at biting my tongue but I’m getting to the point now where it’s getting a little much.
Anyways…sorry for the long rant! Ha. Enjoy your Sunday everyone!!
Cheers
FB
Being a recently separated/divorced guy I’ve been noticing a lot of interesting things throughout this process. For the most part it hasn’t been terrible and any conversations regarding the children has been amicable until now. To give some background she decided to leave several months ago and my oldest hasn’t been handling that too well as he feels she broke up the family. Realistically she did not as we had our issues for many years.
Recently my ex has began dating someone pretty seriously by the sounds of it and has introduced him to both of our kids. My oldest isn’t a fan and is struggling mightily with this. However my youngest will be fine as he’s more easy going and relaxed. One is a teenager and the other is 10.
However, here’s the weird shit that I’m having trouble grasping and understanding throughout this process. My ex has been having inappropriate conversations with my oldest about my dating life and that I have a partner now (which I don’t). I’m not sure if this is to help her justify her relationship and my one sons push back? I just don’t see the point. There have been other comments as well essentially just pinning the children against me but to blatantly lie? To put kids into these positions is just beyond me and my morals.
Have any of you dealt with shit like this? If so, what were your techniques at handling it?
I feel like I’m pretty good at biting my tongue but I’m getting to the point now where it’s getting a little much.
Anyways…sorry for the long rant! Ha. Enjoy your Sunday everyone!!
Cheers
FB