How much better is sex when....

OntarioDude said:
Maybe others can relate to this in some ways...

I just wish that she'd initiate or let me know when it's time for the "other" door.

I have to pay attention to her bathroom trends, comments, timing, fatigue levels, etc. and maybe give it an educated guess and make an attempt once or twice a month because that''s what it seems like she's comfortable with.

After paying attention and thinking it's time, I almost always rub there when back there for more "normal" business and even if she seems responsive and to be enjoying things I still can't tell until I give it a go and then get the brakes usually get put on which is then a huge turn off, especially since it's mostly for her and I do so many other things to please which is very annoying at the time which then makes me completely lose interest and I will often just stop altogether and not even bother finishing and this lasts for a few days after.

Often I tell myself I won't even bother trying anymore but then I remember the intense orgasms she has (super sensitive everywhere else, crying, etc.) and want to do that again.

It's really just guess work and 99% rejection but seems like the best ever for her when I do go there and then everything else afterward is dramatically improved and she goes crazy with everything.

OD
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Whats this "other door" you speak of ..I've never been presented with the other door.
 
animal-inside said:
Whats this "other door" you speak of ..I've never been presented with the other door.
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The “other door” is the path less travelled unless you are fearless of what’s to come. It’s a hit and miss but usually a place of no return. It gives you a nice tight grip on life and makes you realize that you have been lied to. Unfortunately, I am not much help on text but if you throw up the bat after midnight and get yourself oiled up…I will be there. You should have seen how @The Old Guy was breathing for me last time!
 
The Caped Crusader said:
The “other door” is the path less travelled unless you are fearless of what’s to come. It’s a hit and miss but usually a place of no return. It gives you a nice tight grip on life and makes you realize that you have been lied to. Unfortunately, I am not much help on text but if you throw up the bat after midnight and get yourself oiled up…I will be there. You should have seen how @The Old Guy was breathing for me last time!
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I simply refer to mine as "Exit Only"
 
animal-inside said:
1st highlight; There has been many times during the middle of the day with kids around my wife will say "I was kind of horny last night before we fell asleep". and I'll say "what?? Why didn't you tell me or do something?"... She will give one of two responses.. Response A) "well I did.... when we were laying in bed watching TV, I put my foot on your leg"... Response B) "I didn't make a move because I was worried you'd reject me..".

As you can understand, I can not interpret her putting her foot on my leg as wanting to bang.. I ask for a more forward thing or even just saying "wanna bang".. and my wife will always repond with "ok, I'll do that next time"... And when she says she's worried about rejection I ask her "when have I ever rejected you?".. and her response is "never"... so where does that fear come from? I feel its her excuse to be honest..

I can not function without banging min 2 times a week.. I don't know how people can go a month without???? I've had to endure once a week a few times, but I feel like a sexual deviant by the end of the week..
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A foot on my leg would be enough for me, lol..Jk I wouldn’t have gotten the hint either.

I am ok with once a week. The month long things happened when I was doing hunting season and working from 8 am till 2 am the next day, so somewhere around 140 hours a week. I was running full out sleeping 4 hours a night for 3 months.
 
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animal-inside said:
How much better is sex when it's initiated by your wife/gf?

I've been married around 15 years, together for 18ish, and in all those years I can not get the wife to understand when she initiates sex its significantly better.. Part of the reason its better is because she never initiates it.. I know if she initiated if often, it wouldn't really be significantly better.

Edit: I'm asking here because I want to show the wife its not just me.. She thinks its just me and "normal men" don't really care or find sex different if the women initiates
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Oh man, I hear you. It's waaaay better when they initiate the moment..... as far as I remember lol

Married for 20 years now and it really feels like I always have to use my negotiation/scheduling skills....50 years old (v8 turbocharged with test and other additives), and sex life of an average 75
 
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